I’ve got a girl out there crying over you because she cares so much, and I’m here trying to figure out why but I can’t see what’s worth caring about. You know, Damon once told me that he promised you an eternity of misery, and I remember thinking ‘Well, what could his brother have ever done to inspire so much hatred?’. But now I get it. You’re not a brother to him. Brothers don’t give up. So every time I see you doing anything that looks like you’ve done so, every time you try to start over in a life that’s nothing but a lie, I will make you pay. I will be the one to bring you the misery you deserve.
Be with her because you actually want to be with her, because you actually see a potential future with her, not because you are used to being with her, not because you’re scared of the thought that being without them will ruin you. The point of being in a relationship is to enjoy each other’s company, is to be there to support each other when they need it most. No one person, defines who you are. They only compliment you.